We always have the side of us which we hide from the people we meet,,, people who we think are not trustworthy enough to know the true you. But come to think of it,,, you yourself have a lot of apprehension and doubts to reveal yourself to them simply because we are afraid that we might get rejected. We show them the likeable side and we give them what we just wanted them to know. The not so good thing about it is that when we start to love that person more than we expected, we could not go out of our shells and show the real person behind that facade. The big question comes in... when is the right time to reveal the true you?
The right time is always the first time.... the first time you met the person... the first time you talk...the first time you like the person... the first time you feel there's more than liking him. Revealing the true you is not an easy thing and it should go on stages. Every time things are getting tougher, harder and complicated, the more you need to show your soul deeper and deeper. This would also mean accepting the reality that as you expose your soul the greater the possibility that you become unlikeable. But it would be a test of true friendship, love and acceptance. People who will accept you more than the stains in your soul and the scars of the past are the ones worthy of the true you!
The right time is always the first time.... the first time you met the person... the first time you talk...the first time you like the person... the first time you feel there's more than liking him. Revealing the true you is not an easy thing and it should go on stages. Every time things are getting tougher, harder and complicated, the more you need to show your soul deeper and deeper. This would also mean accepting the reality that as you expose your soul the greater the possibility that you become unlikeable. But it would be a test of true friendship, love and acceptance. People who will accept you more than the stains in your soul and the scars of the past are the ones worthy of the true you!
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